Visiting Sydney for business often means packed schedules, high-pressure meetings, and long hours. Amidst the hustle, an outlet to unwind and explore your desires can make for a more successful trip on a personal and professional level. 

I love this city and providing insights on places to go suited for your desires. I’m more than happy to offer suggestions on where to eat, drink and find entertainment. And if you’re reading this on my website, chances are I’ll be penciled into your secret activities itinerary.

For those intrigued by the world of BDSM, booking a session with a professional Dominatrix can be a unique and empowering experience. Here’s a guide for businessmen visiting Sydney who are considering taking this step.

Why Choose a Dominatrix Session in Sydney?

Sydney’s vibrant culture extends beyond its stunning harbor, beautiful beach suburbs and bustling business districts. The city is also home to a discreet, professional BDSM community with highly skilled Dominatrices who cater to a wide range of interests and experiences. For a visiting businessman, a session with a Dominatrix can offer:

• Stress Relief: Letting go of control can be a cathartic release from the demands of leadership.

• Exploration: A safe space to explore kinks and fetishes without judgment.

• Confidentiality: Professionals in this field prioritize client privacy, ensuring discretion at all times.

Research and Preparation

Before booking a session, take the time to research the dominatrix you’d like to visit. Here are some tips:

• Look for Reputable Providers: Use online directories and browse profiles on platforms where professional Dominatrices advertise their services. Check consistency across platforms, website and social media

• Read Their Profile and Website: Many Dominatrices detail their specialties, session types, and expectations. This helps you choose someone who aligns with your interests.

• Prepare to Communicate: Be ready to discuss your desires, boundaries, and any concerns in a respectful and clear manner.

Booking Etiquette

Professionalism and respect go a long way when booking a session. Here’s how to make a good impression:

• Use Email or Text: Most dominatrices prefer initial contact via email or messaging platforms. Avoid calling unless explicitly invited to do so.

• Introduce Yourself: Provide a brief, polite introduction, including your name (or pseudonym), the dates and times you’re available, and the type of session you’re seeking.

• Follow Their Instructions: Adhere to any booking procedures they outline, such as deposits, pre-session forms, screening and specific cleaning procedures required prior to certain activities. 

What to Expect in a Session

Every Dominatrix has their unique style and approach, but most sessions follow a general structure:

• Consultation: At the start, you’ll discuss your interests, limits, and any concerns.

• Play: The session will be tailored to your preferences and the Dominatrix’s specialties.

• Aftercare: Many professionals offer aftercare to ensure you feel grounded and comfortable post-session.

Respecting Boundaries and Rules

Consent and mutual respect are the cornerstones of any BDSM interaction. Be sure to:

• Respect Limits: Understand that Dominatrices are professionals, and their boundaries are non-negotiable.

• Avoid Overstepping: Do not make personal or intrusive requests beyond what is agreed upon.

• Be Punctual: Arrive on time and honor the duration of your booking.

Post-Session Reflection

After your session, take some time to reflect on the experience. Many clients find sessions with a Dominatrix transformative, offering insights into their desires and emotions. If you wish to book another session, it can be a good idea to provide positive and constructive feedback to assist the Dominatrix in tailoring your next session

Discretion and Privacy

We are both professionals, and Sydney’s professional Dominatrices value our clients’ confidentiality. Be assured that your personal and professional reputation will be respected. However, it’s essential to uphold this mutual respect by keeping the details of your session private as well.

Final Thoughts

Booking a session with a Dominatrix while visiting Sydney can be an exciting way to balance the pressures of business with personal exploration. By approaching the experience with respect, openness, and a willingness to embrace new dynamics, you can unlock a side of yourself that complements your professional persona. Whether you’re seeking stress relief, exploration, or simply curiosity, Sydney’s BDSM scene offers a discreet and enriching experience for businessmen seeking something extraordinary.

Personally, I love seeing clients visiting Sydney on a business trip. I have a vast collection of portable toys that I’m excited to bring along and play with at your hotel. The more notice, the better, but don’t hesitate to contact me last minute either, as I just might have an opening for you. Let me be the secret spice on your next business trip. 

Your father, your boss, your brother, or any random person walking down the street with a  happy, mischievous smile on their face, could all be clients I see as a Dominatrix. 

The youngest client I’ve seen is 18 and the oldest 75. I don’t discriminate against anyone based on age (as long as you’re of legal age), gender, ethnicity, religious or sexual orientation. 

My clients share some commonalities, they are all open minded to a certain degree and have a desire to give up control. Other than that, there’s such a wide variety of kinks and levels of execution of these that no person ever wants exactly the same thing in the same way.  

In many cases their particular kink can be traced back to early childhood memories. Some have explored their desires early on, while others have had it lingering at the back of their mind for years, sometimes decades. 

I often see men in high stress positions used to having lots of responsibility. Such as CEOs, lawyers, bankers and military personnel. To use an example, it highly excites me to dress up big strong men as sissies and offer them space and freedom to play and lose themselves under my control.

I see about as many single clients as those that are married or in relationships. I absolutely love it when they have discussed seeing me with their partner, or even having their partner suggest they book me. However, I do see men who choose not to tell their partner of our session for a variety of reasons. Perhaps their kink is a part of them they like to keep to themselves or sadly sometimes out of fear of being ridiculed. 

Often, my client gets a much needed release from sessioning with me. Witnessing how much lighter and glowing someone looks when they emerge from the shower after a session warms my heart and spirit. 

I encourage both new and seasoned players to session with me. I see a balanced proportion of regular and new clients. I love them both in different ways. 

It’s very exciting for me to grow a long term domme/sub relationship, where we both feel confident in exploring deeper and pushing our boundaries further. My creativity flows freely when planning and conducting sessions with slaves I’ve seen countless times. I deeply appreciate my regulars, some who have been with me since I was a baby domme seven years ago who have witnessed me grow into myself as a woman and Dominatrix.

A brand new client, even one completely new to BDSM in its entirety can be a clean slate for me to play and explore what makes them tick and what’s left tested and tried never to be done again. Sometimes, a new client has specific kink(s) they’ve researched and/or played with on their own or with a partner that they want to delve deeper into with a professional. 

What comes as a surprise to people outside of my profession, is that I see many guys in their early twenties. And to my pleasant surprise, they have demonstrated the most excellent communication skills. A random text from a random dude saying “Hey bby, avail?” has mostly come from men over thirty. (Yes, I sometimes follow up on these texts out of curiosity and ask for age, name and desired session content). Thankfully, I see less of these texts and more well written session requests from all age groups these days.

Most times, I cringe when guys describe themselves as tall, fit and good looking. I then expect someone full of themselves with a proclivity to top from the bottom. However, I’ve been pleasantly surprised by having someone with such a description surrendering all control and being genuinely pleasant to be around. Always expect the unexpected. 

One thing that’s expected and true is that most of my clients are men. On rare occasions I’ve seen couples. I absolutely love introducing and teaching couples how to implement BDSM into their sexlife in a safe and fun manner. To partake in their experience is an exciting honor to me and something I wish I was invited to more often.

Why on Earth is the midpoint of a pandemic a good time to see a sex worker? 

First, we are already extremely careful about hygiene and sanitization of our workspace. The pending threat of disease makes us even more cautious, so rest assured, you're most likely stepping into one of the last places a virus would survive.

Second, the public fear has made some clients cancel their bookings and others think twice about making one. As a result those who decide to see us will really make our day and be shown how much we value them as a client.

Third, in a time of gloom, you are much better suited to deal with whatever life throws at you when you're happy. That's where we come in. Sex and physical touch are directly related to happiness. Some may even go as far as saying sex is the key to happiness and good health. 

Now, I highly encourage you to visit your local sex worker, gain some valuable sanitization tips, share some laughs and protected intimacy and leave with a smile on your face. If anything, it should prepare you to more easily slide through what may become a time of even greater despair.

Are you frantically running around organising Christmas parties, keeping track of family festivities, buying presents, and taking care of everything and everyone but yourself?

Here’s a wild idea, take an hour or even two to gift yourself some pleasure. I promise you’ll forget some of the weight on your shoulders and leave with a smile on your face. A smile that will last through the rest of your day and potentially all the way until Christmas.

In busy times like these, we tend to think about everyone but ourselves. But, how can we really take care of anyone else when we haven’t tended to our own needs first?

This December, at my luxurious incall in Sydney CBD I am excited to be your Private Christmas Party.

If you desire a relaxed time to unwind, I offer a soothing massage to center you before some sensual delights.

Are you more in the mood for a real party, let’s open the champagne and turn up the music. If we get extra silly, I even have disco lights to turn up the mood, while we play a game of how many surfaces we can have fun on.

Let me be your treat this Christmas. You deserve some fun too!

I’m bartending and waitressing at a private party tonight so I can’t join. In one way, I am telling the truth. I will be pouring drinks. I am simply leaving out what I’ll serve for main course; me.

When friends and family ask about my work, I never lie completely, I just don’t tell the whole truth.

I’ve been bartending on and off for ten years. Occasionally, I still work at private parties, although I prefer pouring drinks in a much more intimate setting. In my life now, I create the best drinks naked or wearing sexy lingerie, and serve them to a lover or a couple of lovers.

Other times, I say I am a yoga teacher. I am a yoga teacher, I have 500 h of training behind me, have taught in three countries, and often end up using skills I acquired in a job. I owe my flexibility, mental clarity, breathing technique, and creative positioning of my body to yoga.

Am I really lying and living a double or even triple life when I am only leaving out sharing certain aspects of my life in conversation with certain people?