Another year, 365 days of experiences. Filled with life, love, BDSM, swimming, running on the beach, introducing newbies to domination and exploring Australia. 

What new experiences would I like to invite into my life this year? 

In the BDSM realm I’m considering booking a session with another Dominatrix to experience being on the other side of the ropes, literally. I have to admit rope bondage is not my strongest side and that’s something I’d like to change this year.

When it comes to my inner explorer, I’d love to learn how to sail and travel around the Whitsundays. Technically speaking, another thing including ropes. A trip without any work for once. Something I rarely do.

Speaking of work trips, I would like to tour places I haven’t toured before in Australia. High on that list is Hobart. This time I’m planning a half work, half experience trip and looking at dates around Dark Mofo. 

In the physical realm, I’d love to add regular martial arts classes onto my yoga, strength training, running and swimming regimen. I am also keen on burlesque classes. 

Trying new cuisine and restaurants, while also cooking more at home is another desire I have for the new year. Since my body decided to become lactose intolerant in my mid twenties, followed by gluten intolerant a couple years later, I will need to find food suitable to my sensitivities.

I’m looking forward to continuing designing my life as best suited for me. Filled with new experiences and continual improvement of my craft. 

Christmas holds the potential for both stress and serenity. Allow me to make sure you get more of the latter. 

Whether the festive season at the end of the year is a time of great joy or despair to you, one thing is sure, you deserve a treat. A present sure to be a feast to all your senses is a booking with an escort.

A Christmas date can include traditional treats such as cookies and eggnog or be customized to fulfill your desires. Perhaps you'd like me to open the door naked wrapped in Christmas lights? 

It makes me incredibly happy to plan a date that will leave us ecstatic and with secret memories to cherish forever. 

Let us put our imaginations together and create the ultimate Christmas date.

Merry Christmas

Tension release

Are you in a high pressure job where you have to be switched on and ready to handle any challenge 24/7? Imagine being able to fully separate your mind and body from all responsibilities and hand over the reigns of your existence for a couple hours. Separating fully from stressors can bring forth a huge tension release and leave you feeling euphoric and ready to take on challenges with a clear mind.

An unfulfilled desire to be submissive

Have you fantasized about a powerful woman taking charge of your body and mind? Is it something you are unlikely to admit to desiring in your everyday life? This is where hiring a professional dominatrix is a great idea to let you explore an aspect of yourself you have not given space before in the right set and setting. She will guide you into the new world of submission and together you will uncover what aspects of submission are most suitable for you to unpack.

Expanded understanding of power dynamics

Being in a state of submission is very different from many peoples everyday reality. Putting yourself in such a position can give you valuable insights into what it is like to be under someone else’s control and influence. 

You are always in control and would like to experience giving up control

Are you the boss in your personal and professional life? Do people turn to you expecting you to always be in control? Do you always have every little aspect of your life planned out to the finest detail? Imagine not having to make any decisions and simply follow directions without knowing what will happen next. If you dare step into an experience so far from your ordinary day to day life, it can give you a great release of tension as previously mentioned and open your mind to see things from different perspectives. 

You are open minded and would like to try something new

If you are naturally open minded, adventurous and curious about different dimensions of sexuality, it can be a rewarding experience to dive into the world of BDSM guided by a professional. A session with a dominatrix will  let you discover something new to add to your sexual repertoire. It may let unpack another aspect of your sexuality which can open you up to a whole range of experiences previously unexplored. At the very least you will leave with exciting memories and another thing to cross off your bucket list.

Sexual energy, libido, lust, desire, passion, eroticism, a powerful force with many names. This inborn power enlivens and invigorates us. The stronger our passion is, the more it assists us in being vital and present with life. 

The strength of our libido can make us more creative and inspired. Flowing through life seems less challenged when we are infused with the energetic force of desire.

Both lack of, longing for, and experiences of playing in the realm of lust inspires great works of art. Paintings, poetry, movies, plays and music are full of words and imagery inspired by eroticism.

Sometimes, our sexual energy lacks an appropriate outlet, and the force gets bottled up inside. This may cause anger, aggression and dissatisfaction with life and sexuality.

This is where I come in, providing a safe space to get back in touch with your libido. When we are together, and even before we meet in the flesh, I encourage you to explore your sexuality. I invite you into my playground, where you are free to embrace all aspects of yourself. Trust me to ignite your passion, and send you back into the world infused with at least a little more lust for life.

There are hundreds of escort directories online, some local and other international. A segment of these are aimed at the lower end of the market, while others cater to the higher end of the spectrum. What they have in common is the need for sex workers signing up and clients choosing providers from their page over others.

What makes a directory successful? Factors include branding, design, user friendliness, layout of the page, SEO, and in my opinion people. The people behind the idea of the directory, the ones who put the page together and the people who run it on a daily basis creates the foundation. 

All of this does not mean much unless it can attract the right sex workers to put a profile on their page and also recommend the directory over others. Then comes the clients, who need to either know about the directory or find it easily when doing a search.

When I put my profile on an established directory, I consider its design, wanting it to be simple, classy and sexy and be able to reflect who I am as an escort. Then, I look at the sex workers on it, to see if they are in the same category as myself. After which, I see how the page performs on a Google search, if it is on Twitter, and any feedback that might have been given about it. Then, I’ll ask a worker friend and a client if they have heard about it and their opinion.

New directories seem to pop out of nowhere on a weekly basis these days, sending lengthy text messages and emails full of promises of benefits. When I choose to put a profile on a new directory, I look past messages promising the world from directories I have never heard of, to personal invitations from trustworthy people with industry experience. 

In a time where the world has changed to the unrecognizable within a couple of months, where established directories change for the worse and new ones for the better, who knows what page will be the most popular in the future. Therefore, it can be a good idea to go directory shopping and see if there are new ones that fit your needs more where you currently advertise. On one hand you might get a good laugh and know what to steer clear off and on the other hand find a new favorite and gain some inspiration.

Why on Earth is the midpoint of a pandemic a good time to see a sex worker? 

First, we are already extremely careful about hygiene and sanitization of our workspace. The pending threat of disease makes us even more cautious, so rest assured, you're most likely stepping into one of the last places a virus would survive.

Second, the public fear has made some clients cancel their bookings and others think twice about making one. As a result those who decide to see us will really make our day and be shown how much we value them as a client.

Third, in a time of gloom, you are much better suited to deal with whatever life throws at you when you're happy. That's where we come in. Sex and physical touch are directly related to happiness. Some may even go as far as saying sex is the key to happiness and good health. 

Now, I highly encourage you to visit your local sex worker, gain some valuable sanitization tips, share some laughs and protected intimacy and leave with a smile on your face. If anything, it should prepare you to more easily slide through what may become a time of even greater despair.

“How could they hire someone as incompetent as you for the sales position? I haven’t seen anyone as useless as you in years. Now, I can think of a couple ways for you to make up for that...” 

Welcome to the world of role play. My personal favourites include naughty secretary, inspecting landlady, stepsister, demanding boss, and pornstar at job interview. 

Stepping into a role adds another layer of excitement and permission to leave the mundane behind. 

I love assisting clients to act out their fantasies. Personally, I find acting thrilling and particularly enjoy the process of getting into character and the improvisation that follows. Whether it's acting out a script or acting an open role, it encourages a playfulness that invigorates our lives long after the play is over.

My heart beat faster as I surrendered to his touch. I released all desire to resist as he put cuffs around my wrists and locked my arms together behind my back. I willingly let him take control over me, the untamable one.

A fresh awareness of body and breath arose as I was liberated from performing. He gently threw me down on the couch face down. His soft, yet firm hands caressed my butt before he spanked me once on each cheek. Is that all you got? The moment it slipped out of me, I both regretted saying such and felt an extreme excitement for what came next. He slapped my right buttcheek so hard it gave off a perfect spanking sound. The arousing pain stripped my mind from thoughts as my body became all sensation. 

I quickly snapped out of it as my perfectionist self came back to hold the reigns of my brain. How was it that this newbie gave off a better spanking sound on my ass than I do on others? Perhaps my booty just give off a good sound? Dammit, just as easy as I lost control, my mind was ready to take it back. I told my first dominant to release me, and that I had enough for the first time. Inside, I craved for more. 

The exhilaration I felt from releasing control infused me with new excitement for life and work. Now, I know what it’s like not to think or plan or hold space. Unaware of what will happen next. Aware only of sensations. Outside the mind, in the field of the body, where pleasure and pain become one. 

I love my job. It's taken me over 10 years to finally dare become a sex worker, what I always wanted. Surely, I would be the last person to give up my beloved profession and lifestyle for a man?

Think again. Before being bewildered by a boyfriend and prospects of a "normal" life, I never doubted my choices in life. Then, I too got lured away by love. At least what I thought was love at the moment. While in my mind, love should be unconditional. In this case it was conditioned by me having to reluctantly agree to seeing my work as morally wrong.

The strong, independent woman I thought I was caved into conditioned love. I no longer felt good about working and took an indefinite break while struggling to adapt to a life of Netflix, chill and dog walks. 

To be loved I gave up my life. I lied and humoured my man and his limited view on sex work as amoral.

Personally, I find sex work beautiful. It allows for genuine connection, exploration of sexuality, and gives space for people to be free and exactly who they want to be, even if just for an hour. Every hour I worked I felt privileged to be a guide in the realm of sexuality. Then I turned around and gave it all up to fit into a box that was never fitted for me.

You may wonder where the story ends? Well, I realised that someone who can't love me for who I am will never accept me as an equal. I choose to take the good memories with me as I decide to be myself again, fully. No limitations and no shame. I am at a stage where my life is exactly what I designed it to be, doing what I love, being happy and free. No one can tell me that's the wrong place to be.

A woman's touch awakens dormant desires in me. The softness. The sensuality. The sensations of her hand stroking my skin. If simply her fingers makes me tingle from head to toe, her tongue must surely be pure bliss.

If I get excited only from thinking about a woman’s touch, then a man touched by not one, but two women at once must be close to nirvana. If I was a man, that would be my ultimate fantasy. Hey, writing about it makes me wonder if perhaps it might be mine too.

Seeing couples or adding another female to the mix in a booking has been some of my favourite bookings. Nothing compares to the delight of exploration and the many possible opportunities for simultaneously sharing and receiving pleasure.   

Combining the soft female with the more firm male is the perfect combination for someone who wants it all. Now, dear reader, please let me indulge in this delight again soon...