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Planning a trip for my three year anniversary with slave

Three years of growing together as Mistress and slave is worthy of a special celebration, considering it's a huge milestone for us both. For the occasion, we are planning a getaway to a place we both want to explore. A journey filled with the things that are connecting us on multiple levels.

In our special union, we keep pushing boundaries and making fantasies into realities. Our connection is a unique blend of Mistress/slave dynamic, nature appreciation and friendship. It's one of those things that shouldn't work, yet magically does. So, this time we're stretching it even further with an extended shared experience.

Right now, there are less than 2 months until the planning, preparation and packing culminates in explosive playtime. But first things first, getting down to the business of picking the right place. 

Place

At our first meeting, we discovered a shared appreciation of nature. He later sent me pictures from his four-wheel drive and camping trips to beautiful sceneries. Many of these came from Western Australia. Personally, I have been to Perth multiple times and always wanted the opportunity to explore more of the state. I also love visiting wineries and have been to many wine regions in Australia, except for Margaret River. 

When a direct flight opened from Sydney to Margaret River it seemed to be heaven sent at the right time for us to plan an adventure including all our favorite things. 


Planning and preparation 

I'm a sucker for lists. I have a list of equipment for playtime. An outfit list. A list of things I pack for myself. A list of places to visit and things to do. And a list in Google maps of places to go. And a list of areas where we might be uninterrupted in nature. 


Thankfully, slave has no other choice than to appreciate these lists. And to contribute when I ask for input. This way we can share our thoughts on the trip and co-create it as we go along. With my choice always being the final say in the activities of course.

Payment 

How can I put a price on a priceless experience? It is the most difficult thing for us both I believe. It should be easy, I should easily be able to ask for my worth. However, it becomes difficult in such a situation as it's not a normal session per se. So, I've made a proposal of a minimum amount and what that will cover in regards to playtimes and social times. Naturally, flights and accommodation and any travel expenses outside of that is covered immediately before the trip commences. 

Packing

One half of my large suitcase is dedicated to toys. The other half for clothing, shoes, boots, accessories, makeup, and toiletries. Then, there’s tripod and lighting in case of movie making.

To my pleasant surprise, slave had made a list of things that he can bring along to make things easier for me. 

Personal time

With all of my brain and physical power going into the planning of a one-of-a-kind experience, I'm going to need something to take my mind off it for a while as well. Balance is key. I will need time for meditation, exercise, swimming, journaling and just some general downtime by myself. 

Playtime

With time dedicated to spend with myself, I'm even more eager to get to the shared experiences.  This time we will be able to explore things both at the hotel and  outdoors in nature which is something we both wanted to do for as long as we have known each other. With slave taking on slave tasks in nature with picture proof on occasion. Nothing is set in stone as to when we do certain things, but we have a general idea of how approximately long we want playtimes to last. With the option of extension if desired, and full permission to flow wherever time and our connection takes us in the moment.

Memories for a lifetime 

Exactly what will happen during our time together is yet to be known. However, I know we will be making memories for a lifetime. How can I be so sure about that? Because of all the memories we've already made and the connection that's been built over years. That's how I know that taking it even a step further will only make even more magical memories for us. 

Until those memories are being made, everyday is a countdown until the trip. And that makes life a lot more exciting and interesting. And that feeling of waking up excited of what's to come is priceless. 



A Businessman’s Guide to Booking a Session with a Dominatrix in Sydney

Visiting Sydney for business often means packed schedules, high-pressure meetings, and long hours. Amidst the hustle, an outlet to unwind and explore your desires can make for a more successful trip on a personal and professional level. 

I love this city and providing insights on places to go suited for your desires. I’m more than happy to offer suggestions on where to eat, drink and find entertainment. And if you’re reading this on my website, chances are I’ll be penciled into your secret activities itinerary.

For those intrigued by the world of BDSM, booking a session with a professional Dominatrix can be a unique and empowering experience. Here’s a guide for businessmen visiting Sydney who are considering taking this step.

Why Choose a Dominatrix Session in Sydney?

Sydney’s vibrant culture extends beyond its stunning harbor, beautiful beach suburbs and bustling business districts. The city is also home to a discreet, professional BDSM community with highly skilled Dominatrices who cater to a wide range of interests and experiences. For a visiting businessman, a session with a Dominatrix can offer:

  • Stress Relief: Letting go of control can be a cathartic release from the demands of leadership.

  • Exploration: A safe space to explore kinks and fetishes without judgment.

  • Confidentiality: Professionals in this field prioritize client privacy, ensuring discretion at all times.

Research and Preparation

Before booking a session, take the time to research the dominatrix you’d like to visit. Here are some tips:

  • Look for Reputable Providers: Use online directories and browse profiles on platforms where professional Dominatrices advertise their services. Check consistency across platforms, website and social media

  • Read Their Profile and Website: Many Dominatrices detail their specialties, session types, and expectations. This helps you choose someone who aligns with your interests.

  • Prepare to Communicate: Be ready to discuss your desires, boundaries, and any concerns in a respectful and clear manner.

Booking Etiquette

Professionalism and respect go a long way when booking a session. Here’s how to make a good impression:

  • Use Email or Text: Most dominatrices prefer initial contact via email or messaging platforms. Avoid calling unless explicitly invited to do so.

  • Introduce Yourself: Provide a brief, polite introduction, including your name (or pseudonym), the dates and times you’re available, and the type of session you’re seeking.

  • Follow Their Instructions: Adhere to any booking procedures they outline, such as deposits, pre-session forms, screening and specific cleaning procedures required prior to certain activities. 

What to Expect in a Session

Every Dominatrix has their unique style and approach, but most sessions follow a general structure:

  • Consultation: At the start, you’ll discuss your interests, limits, and any concerns.

  • Play: The session will be tailored to your preferences and the Dominatrix’s specialties.

  • Aftercare: Many professionals offer aftercare to ensure you feel grounded and comfortable post-session.

Respecting Boundaries and Rules

Consent and mutual respect are the cornerstones of any BDSM interaction. Be sure to:

  • Respect Limits: Understand that Dominatrices are professionals, and their boundaries are non-negotiable.

  • Avoid Overstepping: Do not make personal or intrusive requests beyond what is agreed upon.

  • Be Punctual: Arrive on time and honor the duration of your booking.

Post-Session Reflection

After your session, take some time to reflect on the experience. Many clients find sessions with a Dominatrix transformative, offering insights into their desires and emotions. If you wish to book another session, it can be a good idea to provide positive and constructive feedback to assist the Dominatrix in tailoring your next session

Discretion and Privacy

We are both professionals, and Sydney’s professional Dominatrices value our clients’ confidentiality. Be assured that your personal and professional reputation will be respected. However, it’s essential to uphold this mutual respect by keeping the details of your session private as well.

Final Thoughts

Booking a session with a Dominatrix while visiting Sydney can be an exciting way to balance the pressures of business with personal exploration. By approaching the experience with respect, openness, and a willingness to embrace new dynamics, you can unlock a side of yourself that complements your professional persona. Whether you’re seeking stress relief, exploration, or simply curiosity, Sydney’s BDSM scene offers a discreet and enriching experience for businessmen seeking something extraordinary.

Personally, I love seeing clients visiting Sydney on a business trip. I have a vast collection of portable toys that I’m excited to bring along and play with at your hotel. The more notice, the better, but don’t hesitate to contact me last minute either, as I just might have an opening for you. Let me be the secret spice on your next business trip.